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As we move further away from primative thought and behavior, we aer finding new ways to motivate each other. Instead of hitting, we are often shamed with failure. Let’s face it: it is generally easier to do than positive re-enforcement–which varies from person to person.

Fear of failing puts your life on hold. Life is all about trial and error. When you make errors, you are able to come to better solutions through modified methods. Failing leads to improvement in our lives and helps us become better people. Hope fo-r the best, accept the worst. If no one took risks, you would not have all of this technolgoy around you–you would not be able to read this.

Because corporations can not physically punish you–and because it is cheaper to do it through negative re-enforcement–the shame and punishment of failure is extremely common. Many actually encourage innovation by threatening your job and punishing your failure. If you feel overwelmed at work, you may need to start planning for a different career path, though many jobs were always be stressful and compensated with a higher salary. If you are good at your job, then the rewards of higher salaries, promotion, and praise will likely make you feel good. But everyone had a hard time at work and everyone feels the pressure. Unfortunately, this is something we have to accept in life.

If you are sick, your body produces hormones that can cause irregular heartbeats and high blood pressure. A good overall attitude and beingless fearful of death–and getting sick in the first place–lead to a better immune system and good overall health. Stress typically makes a sickness worse, which is the result of our high cognitive ability. Many people will use pain killers and other medication to treat this fear–but they end up getting hooked–causing unintended side affects. Since the human body gets tired, we typically get tired of being freaked out about something and grow to accept it. Self medication is dangerous.

- Acceptance. You will always fail sometimes. This is necessary to have a positive outcome. Basic mathematical probability equations show that indeed, you will always fail–and sometimes you have to fail to get a better outcome. This is basic math.

- Failure is actually positive. When you do fail, figure out why and how you can learn from it. Try again. The founder of the Samsung Group failed many times before his business took off. Steve Jobs wasn’t always successful ether.

-  Don’t take it personally. In the grand scheme of things, you actually aren’t so special that your failure should impact your self esteem. You may over-generalize and come to wrong conclusions that you are less competent than others. All statistics show that no one person is more competent. The best way to deal with this is to immediately pick yourself back up and try again!

-  Realize that successful people fail. Your role models all failed doing some things and most failed many times to get where they are.

- The idea that you lack motivation to try again because you can’t even attempt it in the first place has no rational basis. Accept that you aren’t destined to not do something.

- Picture yourself failing and succeeding before you undertake a task. See the outcomes. Plot what you can do to succeed after you faield. Failing is likely not that bad and rules out  other things that make you fail–thus giving a greater chance of success.

- Talk about it. Express how you feel to a trusted friend or family member. If you keep your emotions inside–you may do something irationally.

Try, try again!

Meditation is gaining attention as a potential way to maintain well-being and good health. It has been around and has helped people for thousands of years. It can calm your mind, relax your body, and soothe your spirit. In addition, it’s inexpensive and its risks are minimal.

1. Select a meditation technique that fits your lifestyle and belief system.
2. Set aside some time. Start with 5-minute meditation sessions once or twice a day and work up to 20 minutes each time.
3. Put yourself in an environment where you are most likely to be able to meditate. Many people do group meditation or go to temples.
4. Keep trying. Be kind to yourself as you get started.
5. Make meditation part of your life. Many people prefer to start and end their day with a period of meditation. Others prefer to take meditation breaks during the day. Experiment and find out what works best for you.

 These tips are just a few that are proven to help you start meditation and adding it to your life–even though you think you’re failing at it–is proven to help you relax and enjoy life.

1. Put yourself in the interviewer’s shoes.
They are hiring somebody, and they will hire based on strict criteria–and often times how well you can drink a beer with them. So be personable, present yourself as easy to work with, and show that you are competent and able to learn new things quickly without complaining all the time.

2. Prepare, prepare, prepare.
Learn about the company/organization, know the science or information behind the job, make sure you can answer every technical question.

3. Plan your day around the interview.
On the day of the interview, plan to do some things that de-stress yourself. Make sure you do not drink alcohol–or coffee if it makes you nervous. Studies show, however, that coffee can make you appear more confident during the interview for many people. Eat healthy, stress-free foods and make  sure you are able to check out the area where you may live. Any sign that you are bad at time management will not be good.

4. De-stress before the interview.
After you check in with the receptionist, try some relaxation techniques. This could be as simple as closing your eyes or doing a few deep-breathing exercises.

5. Listen, think, speak.
Do not interupt the interviewer. Keep everything simple and not too complicated, too many questions to make you clarify yourself can make you seem like a bad communicator. Keep it simple.

6. Prepare your own questions.
Always prepare questions to ask the interviewers. This shows interest and it makes sure that that you are the right fit for the position. If you don’t ask any questions then you may not be seen as serious.

Research published in the journal Nature Medicine has shown a link between a faulty gene and migraines. Scientists hope that this discovery will lead to improved pain management treatments for sufferers, with possible benefits for pain treatment generally.

The breakthrough involves a gene known as TRESK, believed to control the brain’s reaction to pain: if it is defective, then many normal activities and actions will be painful. Migraine sufferers (thought in the United Kingdom to number about eight per cent of men and eighteen per cent of women) often complain that light, noise and touch cause pain. TRESK can potentially be affected by drugs that would change the point at which it reports pain, which would alleviate the suffering of those with migraines. Now researchers will need to find such a drug.

The study involved scientists from the Medical Research Council Functional Genomics Unit at the University of Oxford and from Canada. They looked at the DNA of 110 people with migraine and members of their family, and found that TRESK was a major component in migraines. One of the Oxford researchers, consultant neurologist Zameel Cader, described it as a “once in a generation find” and said that it could “potentially lead to a treatment for pain in general.” Before this study, no genes had been directly linked to migraines, although parts of the DNA that raised the general risk had been found.

Migraines are described by the World Health Organisation as a major worldwide cause of disability. In United Kingdom, it is estimated that migraines affect 20 per cent of the population, with about 190,000 migraines occurring daily and over 25 million lost days from work every year. Lee Tomkin, director of a sufferers’ charity, Migraine Action, described the news as “fantastic” and “genuinely a really great step forward.” Professor Peter Goadsby from the Migraine Trust termed it “a novel direction to consider new therapies in this very disabling condition.”

An individual in the initial stages of moderate to severe depression may experience relief from cognitive therapy equivalent to careful drug therapy. Cognitive therapy can be as effective as medications for the initial treatment of moderate to severe major depression, but this degree of effectiveness may depend on a high level of therapist experience or expertise.

Although antidepressant medications are the most widely used and effective treatment, cognitive, or talk-therapy, under the direction of highly trained professionals, has now shown potential in treating the early stages of major depressive disorder.

An eight week study by researchers at the University of Pennsylvania and Vanderbilt University examined the response of 240 depressed patients, randomly placed into three groups. The first group (n=120) received psychological therapy; the second (n=60) a more traditional drug routine, and the third group (n=60) only placebo pills.

The study found that both treated groups recovered wellness much better than the placebo group. At eight weeks, the medication group was at 50 per cent, the cognitive therapy group was at 43 per cent while the pill placebo group had only a 25 per cent improvement.

After 16 weeks both medically treated groups had about 58 per cent improvement. Remission rates were better with the antidepressant medications at 46 percent with 40 per cent for the cognitive therapy group. Further follow up showed sustained improvement with the medicine-treated group in the Vanderbilt University location. The U of P groups remained about equal.

A study comparing effectiveness in reducing major depression of two forms of initial treatment — cognitive therapy which involves discussing thought processes with a qualified counselor, vs medication — has revealed that both therapies reduce depression, but that the benefits of cognitive therapy last longer than those of medication. The study finding contradicts current treatment guidelines of the American Psychiatric Association (APA).

The 16-week study, by researchers at University of Pennsylvania and Vanderbilt University, was the largest trial yet undertaken to resolve the long-running debate. Two-hundred-and-forty patients with moderate-to-severe depression were given one or other of the treatments, or a purposely-ineffective placebo. Study representatives described the two treatments about equally effective. Both were much more effective than the placebo, but with the positive effect of talk-therapy lasting longer.

In fact, the cognitive therapy group saw only as many relapses as a another group that had continued to receive drug therapy.

“We believe that cognitive therapy might have more lasting effects because it equips patients with the tools they need to learn how to manage their problems and emotions,” said Robert DeRubeis, professor and chair of Penn’s Department of Psychology. “Pharmaceuticals, while effective, offer no long term cure for the symptoms of depression. For many people, cognitive therapy might prove to be the preferred form of treatment.”

“Medication is often an appropriate treatment, but drugs have drawbacks, such as side effects or a diminished efficacy over time,” DeRubeis said. “Patients with depression are often overwhelmed by other factors in their life that pills simply cannot solve. In many cases, cognitive therapy succeeds because it teaches the skills that help people cope.”

Researchers pointed out that while the effectiveness of cognitive therapy depended largely on the experience of the practitioner, the same was true of medication, due to the judgement required in prescribing correct dosages of drugs.

A headache or cephalgia is pain anywhere in the region of the head or neck. It can be a symptom of a number of different conditions of the head and neck. The brain tissue itself is not sensitive to pain because it lacks pain receptors. Rather, the pain is caused by disturbance of the pain-sensitive structures around the brain. Headaches is obviously when your head hurts, but if you are having a headache, what kind is it?

Tension-Type Headache – the most common type of primary headache. The pain can radiate from the neck, back, eyes, or other muscle groups in the body. Tension-type headaches account for nearly 90% of all headaches. Approximately 3% of the population has chronic tension-type headaches.

Migraine Headache – Migraine is a debilitating condition characterized by moderate to severe headaches, and nausea, about 3 times more common in women than in men. The typical migraine headache is unilateral pain (affecting one half of the head) and pulsating in nature, lasting from 4 to 72 hours; symptoms include nausea, vomiting, photophobia (increased sensitivity to light), phonophobia (increased sensitivity to sound), and is aggravated by routine activity. Approximately one-third of people who suffer from migraine headaches perceive an aura—unusual visual, olfactory, or other sensory experiences that are a sign that the migraine will soon occur.

Cluster Headache – is a neurological disease that involves, as its most prominent feature, an immense degree of pain. “Cluster” refers to the tendency of these headaches to occur periodically, with active periods interrupted by spontaneous remissions. The cause of the disease is currently unknown. It affects approximately 0.1% of the population, and men are more commonly affected than women.

Hormone Headache - are caused by hormone changes, affecting mostly women who are experiencing hormonal changes or are taking birth control pills or are prescribed hormone replacement therapy.

Medication overuse headaches ( rebound headaches) – usually occur when analgesics are taken frequently to relieve headaches. Rebound headaches frequently occur daily and can be very painful and are a common cause of chronic daily headache.

Sinus Headache – Sinusitis is inflammation of the paranasal sinuses, which may be due to infection, allergy or autoimmune issues. Most cases are due to a viral infection and resolve over the course of 10 days. It is a common condition with more than 24 million cases occurring in the United States annually. Headache/facial pain or pressure of a dull, constant, or aching sort over the affected sinuses is common with both acute and chronic stages of sinusitis. This pain is typically localized to the involved sinus and may worsen when the affected person bends over or when lying down. Pain often starts on one side of the head and progresses to both sides.

Organic Headache – due to intracranial disease or other organic disease.  headache caused by any of a wide variety of intracranial disorders, including sinus or ear infections, brain tumors, and subdural hematomas.

Trigeminal neuralgia (TN), tic douloureux (also known as prosopalgia, the Suicide Disease or Fothergill’s disease) –  a neuropathic disorder characterized by episodes of intense pain in the face, originating from the trigeminal nerve. One, two, or all three branches of the nerve may be affected. This is rare.

Hemicrania continua –  is a persistent unilateral headache that responds to indomethacin. It is usually unremitting, but rare cases of remission have been documented. Hemicrania continua is considered a primary headache disorder, meaning that it’s not caused by another condition. This is rare.

Exertional Headache  - one occurring after exercise.

Vascular headache –  a classification for certain types of headaches, based on a proposed etiology involving abnormal functioning of the blood vessels or vascular system of the brain.

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